Understanding and realizing deep Buddhist teachings doesn’t
mean that you are just memorizing some bundle of theories or a philosophy or
written texts. Buddhist Teachings guide you to investigate the roots of all
kinds of origin, which create the existence for you. To realize that, one must
have profoundly observed within. So, Let’s try dig and understand another,
deeper defilement of ours through this Editorial.
Like we said, one must look deep within and understand how
these roots behaving to confirm the existence in many forms. So, let’s
find out one defilement which leading us to many troubles unknowingly!
Do you like your things to be done by others? I
mean, do you like to have a servant with you? Are you asking others to do
things for you? I mean, do you like to see your parents do your
stuffs? Or do you order your kids to do your things? How about your
spouse? What kind of stuffs? Even the stuffs like “Could you pass that to
me?” kind of stuffs!
Let's say you are doing something, something like cooking...
you ask others to help you around... you ask for the bowl to clean... you ask
someone to cut the vegetable or meat... pass me that… etc... etc... it's like
you always keep a servant around. So, you might be thinking, what's the
big deal on that. What can be the defilement which create & confirm
the existence of ours?
If you could dig deeper in to this nature of ours, you will
find that this is, confirming the “comfort zone” of ours. In another way,
nurturing the comfortable existence of ours, where we do not like to do our own
stuffs even though we have the capability of doing it. We do have the
skill but we don't like to use it for the benefit of ours or others. So,
we just decided to be lazy and let others do those for us.
When this goes to the extreme level that creates the
existence of yours, “just sit or sleep and watching others doing your
stuffs" like huge rocks or mountains. And this creates the realm of
"Titans". There are certain type of God or higher realm also
exist based on the same nature but they have done some good stuffs to others by
nurturing the same nature. Let's talk about it in another chapter.
Coz most of the time this laziness creates the lower realm of Titans which also
knowns as "Asura Hell" in Buddhist Teachings. This is among the
four types of lower realms. Those “Titan” births are not visible to
normal sight as the way they are. They are visible to us like mountains
and huge Rocks or volcanos etc. That's another deep fact to realize by
understanding the roots and origins within. Buddhist teachings guides us
to realize this unknown nature of ours, only if you could listen it properly
through a real noble teacher!
But this is also not the level we are going to talk
here. Let me tell you a story first. “Kujjuttara” was known as the female
disciple who has foremost wisdom among the lay female disciples. And Veḷukaṇṭakī
Nanda Mātā was the foremost in psychic powers among the lay female
disciples. So, the blessed one asked lay female disciple to keep both of
them as the exemplary idols when we walk in this path as lay female
disciples.
So, this Kujjuttara used to be a royal servant.
Where the root began for being a “servant”? The story goes to the time of
the blessed one named "Kassapa” Samma Sambuddha. Basically, this
incident happened in the previous Buddha Sasana. Kujjuttara used to be a
wealthy daughter of one of the richest families in this birth. One
evening she used to prepare herself by sitting in front of a mirror. In that
time one of her friends, a Bhikkuni came by. But that Bhikkuni was
already become an arhath an awaken one! But for Kujjuttara she was her
friend. So, she asked the venerable nun to pass the jewelry box to her.
She asked politely though: "Oh dear venerable one, could you please pass
that jewelry box to me?" and the Bhikkuni saw the possible effects
of this “cause” she created at that moment. She thought that "If I
refused to give her this she will be not pleased and that will cause her to be
born in a hell realm. But if I do pass this that will also cause her to
become a servant for many births. But, becoming a servant is way better
than born in a hell realm. So, I better pass this to her".
So, we should know that these stories are not just given to
entertain us by knowing bunch of stories of noble ones. These stories
were given to us, so that we can realize the depth of "dependent
origination" and to understand the vastness of our behaviors named
“Karma”.
So, my dear dhamma friends, instead of examining the truth
about ourselves we are keep nurturing the defilements continuously with the
little knowledge of ours. Because, we "BELIEVE" that there are
no consequences of little things we do or little things we say or little things
we think as that is the "TRUTH" we believe!
We take our relationships for granted. So, we try to
comfort ourselves by doing these little stuffs. "Demanding to do
things for us is not a big deal!" that's how we "BELIEVE" and
that's where the whole world agree with you too! So, you won't like to listen
to the few who tries to guide you away from these dangers as majority is so
supportive for your belief. In another way “Our Stupidity”! But the
root of unawareness about the "Real Truth" keep creating various
types of existence and we don't even know about that too because what we
believe as the "TRUTH" is so powerful to keep us in the dark!
We believe that there are no noble ones among us.
Definitely not among the loved ones! How on earth my kids or my spouse or
my parent or my friends or my relatives or the people I meet can be noble ones?
They behave just like me. So, we take assumptions according to the way we
believe. like the wealthy lady took an assumption over her friend nun as
"It's ok to tell her to do my stuffs". But in reality, they
have developed the wisdom and all the other qualities to cease this existence
and that makes them noble ones. Because, they were smart enough to see
the viciousness of this existence and they were wise enough to see the origin
and the roots of existence which keep nurturing in each moment we call
“life”!
So, my dear friends just try to be wise! Understand
the defilement of entertaining “self” through asking others to do your
stuffs. That way you will be able to save yourself until you realize this
depth of existence and its roots. Because, if you do not consider it,
then the “next birth effect” is not the worst thing could happen to you.
For me it is the "opportunity of realizing the ultimate truth by the
support of these noble ones which can save us" which we missed just
because of our baseless assumption and maintenance of our comfort zones.
Is it worth?
So, think wisely... why would I have to tell others to do
my stuffs. Why I should expect others to do my stuffs. Why I need to
encourage slavery even through my relationships. I should do my things
and I should help others willingly not because they ask us to do. Helping
others should be your own choice. But asking others to do your own stuff
shouldn’t be our best choice just because it is the easy thing to do!
And always remember, there is no exact measurement of
recognizing the noble ones. They make decision by considering what is
best for that moment. Just like that awaken nun too the decision of
passing that jewelry box. They do so because they are someone who realize
the hidden trap of this existence. But, in other hand we behave like we
know everything! So, we don’t even minding asking to do our stuff even
from a Samma Sambuddha. Sometimes, lay people do ask monks & nuns and
specially the little monks to do their stuffs. And most of the time even
though we know our spouse or parents or relatives or friends or someone whom
walking in this path of nibbana we just don’t mind asking them to do our
worldly stuffs. Instead of following the path they do, we just asking
them to do our stuffs.
We are behaving stupidly and making assumptions and we
believe that they too are happy and willing to do so. But, for them
we are bunch of kids who have the petrol in hand and plays with fire unknowing
to the danger. So, they just silently helping us by believing that we
might take the opportunity of saving ourselves. But we…??? Forget it!!!
So, my dear dhamma friends… if we are wise only, we will
listen to these warnings! But we are so blind by what we believe so we
don't care to listen! We just like to argue and win over it!
And the wise ones stop warning us! So, we are the one who responsible for
our own disasters. If at least you can keep that in mind there you will
see the silver lining in the darkness! Have a blessed time by recognizing
defilements!
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